guidelines in finding ‘true love’ (part 2)



It seems that I have saved a lot of forwarded messages that caters mostly in ‘finding true love’… so let me share 12 more guidelines that I patiently retyped:


guide 6: nothing matters


You’re NOT going to be his LAST…

his FIRST…

nor his ONLY.


He loved before, he will love again. 

But if he loves you now, WHAT ELSE MATTERS?  


He is not perfect, you’re not either. 


If he can make you laugh and he admits to being human and making mistakes, be with him. 

He is not gonna be thinking of you every moment of the day, but he will give you a part that he knows you can break – his heart. 


So don’t hurt him…

don’t change him…

don’t analyze and don’t expect more than he can give. 


Smile when he makes you happy, because perfect guys don’t exist.


guide 7: DON’T CHEAT!


NEVER CHEAT on someone who showed you what love means

Cause only when it’s too late that you’ll realize…you’ve lost something you would never ever have again.


guide 8: its OK to make mistakes


Take chances… take a lot of them. 

Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always end up just the way it should be. 


Your mistake makes who you are. 

You learn to grow with each choice you make.  Everything is worth it.  Say how you feel always.  Be you and be okay with it…


guide 9: let go and relish the good times


True wisdom is seen not by how much you know but how much more you’re willing to learn. 

It’s not about winning an argument but giving way to a deeper idea. 

It’s knowing when to let go of a bad fight and relishing a good and worthy defeat.


guide 10: always come home


Just because you’re already with someone, it doesn’t give you the right not to fall for someone else…


It’s just a matter of choosing who loves you more, you can fall for everyone who treats you special. 


Just make sure that at the end of the day you know your way home to the one who treats you as his life


guide 11: love is an act …


If you love someone, you better prove it…

cause if you don’t they may not believe it ‘for love is not a noun to be defined but a verb to be acted upon’’


guide 12: love and emotion


Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. 

Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. 

Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. 

True devotion will always lead to action – true love




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