mean gays


yes… i am signed in with http://www.planetromeo.com.  Im not even ashamed of it since there are no other venues i can find gay guys all in one place.  It may have been somewhere in cyberspace but at least i don,t need to play “IS-HE-IS-HE -NOT” which is somehow so dead tiring at times.  I guess i’m on that stage that asking your sexuality is just like asking what is your favorite color.  there is no need to pretend and hide who am i.  I wont pretend that i hold the TOP position if i’m really comfortable at the BOTTOM.  i’m not pretentious and i wont budge in to any stereotypical notion that normally straight guys think about me.

Yes, i scream sometime like any straight girls when they feel excited.  i don’t wear make-up but i have my own powder foundation and keeps a concealer on my pocket.  i love men perfumes and i don’t wear girls dress for work. but needless to say, with the agony of everyday life on how straight guys think about us, its so disappointing that even gays alike are so mean to each other.

take for example their profiles at planetromeo which is found below:

** looking for someone who i can hang out with. message me with your number, ill contact you if im interested 

AJsays: wow… “will contact if interested” kawawa naman yung nagmessage.  baka abutin ng isang taon bago ka magka-interes.  why don’t you just respond to that guy na ‘pwede friends na lang tayo’.  i mean, why keep someone hanging in mid air and letting that person drift with its fantasies while you on the other hand has no plans on even responding.  we need to move on somehow and responding to a simple message is the key.  huwag kang magpa-asa sa wala at baka bumalik sayu

 

** ANTIPOLO TONYT .. bosay ( 07 -27 – 2013) ang gwapo mo nman ang macho pa .. ee may utak kaba??!un lang! nako bawal patanga tanga! hehe .. Penge jowa . maginoo pero meju Bastos .. LOLJK just bbm me .. pin:2**@%$65 or send an sms .. 09********16 .. 

AJsays:  goodness gracious!! ikaw na ang matalino iho.  maybe you should go ask your mother to teach you some manners!

 

** Bawal effeminate kung relationship ang habol mo sa akin. Kung tropa lang, dapat discreet pa rin at astigin. Kung WALA kang picture, please back off!! Mag mayabang ka kung gwapo ka. Salamat. 

AJsays: with this type of attitude… sino ang mas mayabang sa inyong dalawa.  the gay international flag represents the color of the rainbow.  it means that though we are different from one another – trans, butch, silahista, bi etc – we are united!  so who the hell are you discriminating effeminate guys.  baka mas lalaki pa sayu yung mga dinidiscriminate mo.  or better yet, mas may itsura at mas may pinagaralan pa sayu.  Youll never know baka may sarili na rin siyang bahay and he doesnt have to rely on his parents for money.  Baka nga mas malakas ka pang tumili pag nakakita ka ng ipis na lumilipad.

 

**lives in sampaloc,studying within U-belt area 🙂 MASSEURS/ESCORTS… PLEASE STOP MESSAGING ME, IM NOT INTERESTED 

AJsays:  then why the hell are you keeping an account for planetromeo if you dont want to entertain messages.  feeling celebrity lang ang peg???

 

**im here just to gather a friend or found a partner who knows the meaning of BUDDY/PARTNER. SEX is not my hobbies so don’t ever ask me, what is my trip and never invite me for that particular things, mssyng lng tym nyo s akin s gnyang bagay 

AJsays: well if that is the case change your profile picture instead.  show some pictures that your all dressed up and not something that you are half naked.  You better brush up your grammar as well so you’ll know when and when not to use “S”

Its funny how we interact to each other.  how we post such things against another gay guy.  I know FB and google is littered with hunk-a-licious guys whom you fantasize at times.  we are literally bombarded of ‘almost perfect’ men that we use this as a gauge in finding our ‘happy ever after’.  but life is filled with choices and we are not perfect with shiny set of teeth.  we vary on sizes … and height but it does not mean if your a five incher, your no longer good in bed.  it does not follow how you perform though your an inch smaller than him.  he may have a 6 pack abs but does he have a personality like yours – as vibrant and colorful than a rainbow sky.

this blogger is guilty in posting gorgeous men.  posting demi-god hunks which is almost perfect.  celebrities with their half-naked photos.  but that’s my aesthetic nature talking.  I know how to appreciate beauty and recognize with their hard work.  but relationship are different.  this is your actual interaction with another human being – on how we respond on certain things and acknowledge the fact that someone from somewhere read your profile or gazed at your photos who manages to pull an ounce of courage from their pocket sending you a simple message … ” HI! “.  You don’t dismiss the fact that he did sent you a message. acknowledge it by responding.  it does not matter if he is effeminate than you or he is wearing pink trousers with skimpy top.  what is important is his honesty to himself and to you.  he never uses someone else’s picture and pretend that he is a TOP.  what matters most is he approach you as another human being.  i just hope that someday, we will find our difference and accept it as it is.

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