Eh ikaw naman ang nanghingi ng pera sa FB status mo, ikaw pa ang may ganang magalit!


A guy asked money using his FB status. Of course someone will respond and asking something in return.  Then this guy simply says NO and posted ill words on his status.

I guess nothing comes for free these days

You invited evil, then be ready when the devil steps in.

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Hayyy kuya… sa uli uli kung ayaw mong makakuha nang kung anu-anong messages from perverts, eh wag kasing kung anu ano rin ang nilalagay mo sa status mo.  On the first place FB is a public domain plus the number one social media in the world.  Anyone could read your status especially kung batayan mo sa buhay ay ang dami ng likers mo.

Seriously… ikaw naman kasi ang nagsimula nun.  Ikaw ang nanghingi ng pera on the first place.  Then you will be offended if they asked for your nude picture or sex.  Come on…

Hindi dahil sa gwapo or cute ka or may dating then you can get away for almost anything.  Naghakot ka lang ng mga aswang sa bahay mo! Esep esep rin!

An open letter of a #hopeless #romantic


dear cupid,

Its been a while since i last sent you a letter.  I may have been traumatized with the last guy you sent me.  Yup its true, its a whirlwind romance but he threw me in a loop and now i don’t know if ill ever recover.

I’m not choosy, just to lay my cards straight.  it just so happen that i’m trying to find a chemistry to the next fellow who sends SMS / IM or message but the pizzas is simply not there.  Plus, im bottom and i’m trying to find the next eligible TOP but they are too low in numbers.  Some pretend they are TOP but low and behold – lies of all lies, they are “FREAKINLY BOTTOM”.  I don’t think that we can spell “happy ever after” if we both were looking for TOP.  I guess this house can only accommodate ONE BOTTOM and that’s me.

true… i admit Mr. Cupid.  IM AFRAID!

my friends often wonder, why?

there’s no harm being single.  as for me, the last time i had a serious relationship was… ( thinking… i forgot na).  Just like what Jack of Will and Grace often said “if you have to think for at least 3 seconds then that’s too long ago”

admittedly… i am terrified.  I hate the fact of opening myself to another person and he wont reciprocate my feelings.  I’m horrified of the things i’m about to feel and at the end of the line – he will end up leaving me just like my last serious relationship.  I’m mortified by the fact that i am not good enough; not well endowed enough; not hunkier  that the other guy in PR or gorgeous than that fellow in Facebook.

honestly, i don’t know how to choose the right guy.  I just let destiny fill in the gap but i don’t think that she is helping me as well.

I just hoped that he would start knocking on my door … uttering “hey just saw you downstairs, i just cant help but wonder if i can get you number…”

But then again, this is the Philippines and i’mnot living in Florida or San Francisco where gays are far more forward with their feelings.  Am i doomed Mr. Cupid… or will i just take care of 9 cats and play solitaire till i finally close my eyes … FOREVER.

Mortified and horrified with my future… but i guess, i would be the last single gay guy in Valenzuela.

Yours truly,

AJ

 

reintroducing Rodjun Cruz


Rayver Cruz brother – Rodjun Cruz who was a former member of the now defunct all-male dancing group Anim-E has joined the cast of “My Husband Lover” who plays as the love interest of  Eric played by Dennis Trillo.   I thought at first, he is a newbie from show business but then again after finding his bio in the ever-reliable “wikipedia”, i just found out that his roots came from ABS CBN.  “In 2006, He was cast as Jigo in the ABS-CBN TV series Calla Lily.  After a year, Cruz along with 14 other celebrity contestants joined the second season of U Can Dance Version 2, where he met and started dating fellow Star Magic talent Dianne Medina.”   With his dancing partner Lina Basas were named Grand Champion of U Can Dance Version 2.  He made a guest appearance in the “Mambabarang” episode of Komiks Presents: Pedro Penduko at ang mga Engkantao in the same year and in 2008, Rodjun Cruz was cast as Jake Perez in the teen drama Lipgloss.   He left Lipgloss after three seasons in 2009 and minor roles in Tayong Dalawa and May Bukas Pa.  Plus some guest appearances in Maynila and Midnight DJ.  “He played Calvin in Magkaribal in 2010 and portrayed Joaquin Buenaventura in Juanita Banana. The same year, he left ASAP XV and joined, the show’s rival, P.O.5 in TV5.

What i do love about him is his general physique.  I think Rayver and Rodjun needs to thank their lucky genes as both has gorgeous body that is ‘to-die-for’ as you can see on the picture below:

Since both of them are brothers, hindi na siguro maiiwasan ang ikumpara silang dalawa.  I can see why Rayver may have a successful start on his showbiz journey but the good thing is Rodjun left ABS ‘sana’ for good.  Kasi hindi nga maiaalis na parating ikumpara siya and to choose Rayver over him.  He is outshines his own brother.  Now he is trying to make a mark on the showbiz industry outside Kapamilya network and i just hoped that he uses MHL as a stepping stone for a better career.  I just read his bio and hindi rin naman pala patok masyado yung mga shows na napuntahan nya.  I think MHL is his biggest project to date.

For me, parang mis-matched sila ni Dennis Trillo for MHL.  Parang may kulang kasi.  I dont know, or baka ako lang yun thats why im not that going gaga over him.  I think there are other actors who can play better his character and far more good looking than him.  Pero bakit hindi nga natin siya bigyan ng chance… May potential naman si Rodjun sa general aesthetics.   These are just my two cents so just place your comments below if you have something to say.

 

young gay guys: shame on you!


Sometimes… it’s just funny na tayu tayu na lang mga bading eh nagkakahiyaan pa or worst kung anu anu pa ang iniisip natin sa kapwa bading.

I don’t know why pero siguro its our upbringing right from the start.  We are a bit hesitant with our feelings since being gay in a masochist society is taboo.  We are often kicked on the sidelines and thought to suppress our feelings kaya the moment na makawala tayu from the wooden closets, we have a different idea sa mundong ginagalawan natin.

Like this guy from work.  We both have an account sa planetromeo.com.  I won’t be a hypocrite but I do have an account on this gay social site.  Anong masama dun?  I think it’s feasible and practical in meeting gay guys around metropolis minus the drama of a broken heart if the guy does not actually like you at all on the first place.  Just imagine the agony of being rejected right on your first date.  I should know since wala naming mga ganitong sites nang dalaginding pa ako.  Kaya nga ng nauso ang guys4men.com ay sobrang nag-fiesta ang mga kabadingan dito sa Pinas dahil sa wakas nadinig rin ang mga pag-nonovena naming sa simbahan ng Quiapo.  Faster and easier way to connect ika nga.  I’m not ashamed that I had an account on the site since I met a lot of fabulous guys and garnered generous friends as well.  Until they close and gave their contents to planetromeo.com

It’s not the same as compared to guys4men.  They don’t have any chatroom with common interest and the guys seemed so cold at times.  They brush you off the moment that they saw your picture.  I can’t blame them since there is no way for them to know me since there is no venue to write your thoughts that a regular chat room can do.

Going back to this guy sa work… so the moment I saw his picture, I instantly send him a message.  I told him that I knew him and asked where he lives since he is about 2.5KM from me lang naman.  Plus his profile said that he lives in Valenzuela.  I swear I just wanted to make friends but instead, what he did is he instantly logged out without responding.  WTF?!!!?

On the next day, I saw him at work and I’ll bet my pouty ass – he saw me.  I was smiling at him but what he did is he totally dismisses my cordial smile and biglang bawi ng tingin.  I mean… why?!!!?

I’m not even totally interested.  I just want to make friends but he inadvertently, took it a different way.  Come on… why do we do these things to ourselves.  Are you ashamed since I saw you red handed carrying an account on a gay social network?  Or you may have this notion na I have a crush on you?  Give me a break.  The world does not revolve on you.  If I do have a ‘thing’ for you, I would have asked your cell number right from the start!

Young gay guys live in a bubble na kesyo nag message or ngumiti sa kanila eh may crush kaagad sa kanila or ‘he-wants-me-in-bed-kinda-tingin’.  Don’t over assume na ito kaagad ang hangad nang mga medyo mas may edad na bading.  Madalas inuunawa ka na lang namin dahil hindi nabibili ang maturity sa BENCH.  You just got to get yourself and tap your feet on the ground dahil baka nahihibang ka na!  SHAME ON YOU!

MAMA, THIS MAKES MAH TEMPERATURE HIGH: featuring Richard Francisco Solano


Another stand out amongst the recently concluded Adam & Steve Competition held in ‘The Library’ is Richard Francisco Solano.  I found his account in FB but it does not say anything much about him.  But based on some of the comments i read from his tagged pictures – he is still a student.  He may have joined a few competitions and he won some but then again his profile does not say much.  He does looks like Kwon Sang-Woo especially with his physique but he is our very own Filipino version.  If you want to add him as a friend, here’s the link guys: https://www.facebook.com/richard.solano.127/about

 

MAMA, THIS MAKES MAH TEMPERATURE HIGH: featuring Jheem Kazumi


JHEEM KAZUMI: that is his name

I stumbled upon this guy when im browsing some of my enlisted friends in FB.  I think the guy is a producer of a beauty competition and Jheem Kazumi is a candidate of the recently concluded Adam & Eve Competition.  He is one of the stand outs so i might as well click his picture to know more about him.  

After clicking and clicking my way, i stumbled upon his FB page and …voila.  Found him!

 

His profile does not say much about him except for the fact that he is living in manila and born April 11, 1993.  So as i blog this post, he just turned 20 last April.  But judging with his albums, he had joined numerous male competition such Mr. & Ms. Sexy Summer 2013,  Campus Hunks 2013, Hari ng Pilipinas. Metro Hunk Fantasy,  Mr. and Ms. Code Bikini Open 2013 and the list goes on and on.  I cant blame him,  with his 6 pack abs and a gorgeous smile to boot, he can kick the other candidates and bring home the bacon.  To know more about him, heres the link on his FB page: https://www.facebook.com/jhim.elauria.1/about.  What i do know is, he gained a fan out of me and i will support him with every endeavor he will get himself into – i mean the online voting stuff plus the free ads on my blog.