#pride2017 : reminder to #gaymillenials – #RESPECT



Why do we celebrate #pridemonth ?
Hit back by asking “straight people should be thankful they don’t need one”. The #pride month roots back from the oppressive Civil Rights Movement. There were “Annual Reminder” marches as early as 1965, which were meant to be a public reminder that the #LGBT community didn’t enjoy the same basic civil rights as other people. But the watershed moment of the modern pride movement is widely considered the #Stonewall Riots. In the 1960s, due to laws prohibiting public sexuality, there were limited options for #queer folk and raids of #gay and #lesbian establishments were common. 

During 80s and early 90s, the only local gay icon I know is Pacifica Falayfay. Dolphy’s iconic performance has ticked the Filipino gay character as #parlorista with a heart of gold. Though his moving performance has paved the way to bring #LGBTQ issues, there is more to #gaylife aside from what I see in theaters. 

I stand strongly to my sexuality and if #millenialpink does not understand our #hugot due to”generation gap”… then let me simply say … 
You won’t enjoy the #liberty to shout out your feelings to the world without the #thunderbeki who fought for you basic rights to #love and #expressyourself . #respect 

Nuff said.

#lgbt🌈 #lgbtpride #queerasfolk #labanbading #bading #bakla #shokla #rainbowbattle #rainbow #gaylife #gaypride #lovewins #baklaako #gaylifematters

Hoy besh… #malaya Ka na.  Wag Kang #humugot dyan as if maging kayo. #feelingera101


Walang sino man ang makapagsasabing alipin ka dahil ikaw ang may hawak ng sarili mong tadhana.  
Ikaw, higit kanino man ang makakapagsabi ng iyong kinabukasan. Hindi nakasalalay sa iilan at sa isang tao… kahit na siya pa ang lalake sa mga panaginip mo.
Ikaw Ay ikaw. #malaya
#happyindependenceday #pinoygay #kalayaan101 #hugot101 #singlegayguy #diaryofasinglegayguy 
🚹Raven Malubay-Jugueta Bermudez

#NoRegrets


Facebook just celebrated its 10 years anniversary and one way of celebrating such phenomenal success that last for more than a decade, they treated their followers and FB users with a video that looks back on our so-called life.  I wanted to post it in my blog but im no techie (anyone who could help me please)

 I can’t say that what I gone through is a “bed of roses”.  Ive been to hell and back and definitely, im still working my ass-off to be a “better” me.  Im not perfect, I make mistakes in the past – I only hope that if ever it bites me once again… im prepared to fight back. But there are NO REGRETS.  I never regretted any single moment.  It makes me what I am today and if ever people judge me of they see in facebook,  what they read on this blog and what they had discovered in cyberspace… I took them all accounted as who I am.

On the first place, who are they to judge me.  They don’t feed my family, I don’t ask a single shilling out from their pocket.  My past may have been jaded and dark but what is important is what I am NOW. Without those single moments, I won’t get any wiser – I won’t be here.

a jar of #GoodVibes for #2014


Its that time of year again that you sit down and write a list of  your New Years Resolution.

I bet every year that list is getting shorter and shorter.  Why?  You simply cant follow the damn list anyway until your all too tired of writing the freakin’ do’s and dont’s and you find yourself snuggling that bottle of beer – frustrated and feeling awful for yourself.  “why am i an awful person…. oh why” – i bet you were asking that after 6 bottles of beer.  Don’t worry, i can relate!

One of my FB friends posted in her newsfeed a bottle of  Good Vibes.  She may have created this last year but i guess its an awful good idea in replacement of “Schindlers list”.  All you got to do is get that empty bottle and fill it up with small notes that may have happened to you during the day and at the end of the year, you get to open it up and literally “count your blessing”.  Take note: you would only include surprised gifts, accomplished goals, the beauty of nature, you “LOL” moments, memories worth saving and your daily blessings.  None of those “cry out” moments that you love to post on you FB status.

I have my own version in FB.  ill create an album for Good Vibes since i’m always online and i’m one of those kids who loves to post pictures.  But either way, it will still be the same end result – “count your blessings instead of the jumping sheeps who went over the fence of your homophobic neighbor … and i bet your ass that you’ll feel a lil bit lighter!!!

Share this post to your blogs and your friends.  “Pay it forward” as they say and get this “good vibes idea” go viral… just don’t forget to leave your comments on the box below on how you felt when you started this project!  Thanks and Happy New Year!

how much are you in #naughty currency?


while scrolling through my FB news feed, i found this post on one of my friends and i love to share it with you…

You simply have to choose the things that you have done so far amongst its 22 choices and each act has an equivalent in dollar currency.  i bet you’ll have a great time calculating how naughty you get through the years…  i got $47.50 so far and i guess based on this test – so far so goood…  i guess i’m still mommy’s little angel after all (winks)

You can repost and share this to your friends and have fun with it.  Just don’t forget to write down on my comments box how naughty you are before sharing it in your blog

thank you Steve Sumbodee for the post.  follow him in Facebook by simply writing his name on the search engine…

#1 rule in a #gay chat room – WAG #MASUNGIT!


i may have not be thinking straight (gay…helllloooooo) but whenever your chatting with someone else – please avoid being “masungit” (and in english “rugged”)

The point of having a conversation is to know the other person – right?  just to give you a brief background of what this person maybe.  Asking basic stuff like age, location, height, weight, bi, straight, gay or work background are some general overview of profiling the guy.  Come on, how many things would I even pick up from a guy whose name is “2big4U” or “right2l4U”.  Would I be able to dissect your personality just by reading your pseudonym or staring on your abs.  Give me some credit.  At least I’m using my face pix to let you know how honest and confident I am in terms with my aesthetics.  I am not good looking and I may not have the “6pack abs” but I does not give you the license to annihilate me with pistols and missiles.

You may have the body of a Greek god or the looks that everyone drools at, but your attitude stinks!  And may I tell you this, I’m not really good with geographical measurements since I got the 75 in my geography class that’s why I ask how near are you from me.  Goodness gracious … your attitude is a spoiler!

 

silipin ang Happy Aquarium


Kabilugan ng buwan at kasagsagan nang aking kaarawan. Habang ako at ang ilan sa mga malalapit kong mga kaibigan ay tumitili sa saya dahil sa mga nakahain na The Bar sa aming harapan ..

Tinamaan na yata ng espirito ng alkohol at nakahanap kami ng libangan. Ang camera phone ko naman ang napag-tripan namin.

Isang malaking PAK! Magandang ideya … at sabay kandirit ng mga kaibigan kong ‘naka-ayos’ pang bulag.  Calendar Recto girls ang munting tema. Pang hayok ang labanan ng dalwa kong kaibigan kaya .. HALA.. eto na ang mahahalay nilang larawan.

Naalala ko tuloy ang mga babaeng masahista sa Recto dati.  Pa-bonggahan ang ayos, ang pinakamahalay panalo at siya ang may pinaka-maraming parokyano.  Eh kung ganito ba naman ang makikita niyo sa mga ‘Happy Aquarium’ .. wala ka nang hahanap hanapin pa.