#rain is just #confetti from the sky

There are two ways to look on a coin and that depends on whether you would like to see the most obvious reason rather than to see what is beyond it. I fully respect everyone’s opinion and people may see it differently. I like to see the #positivevibes of a situation and use this as my platform for an#awesomeday . People would say that I’m 🥜 and I full understand why but their opinion is not important. What is important to me is how perceive a bad situation and turn it as a beacon positivity.


39. My new favorite number.

I never had an issue about my age. In fact I embrace it and never hide the fact that I’m getting a year older. Its like your favorite excuse for everything like asking for a seat from another senior in MRT. If I was given a chance to exchange every year with youth and beauty… I would gladly say “pass” for the opportunity. #wisdom over #vanity.

I seldom visit the church. But everyday, I say a little prayer. Being grateful that I had another day, another chance to mend my ways. Looking back on those years, I like what I become. It may not be what I dream of becoming but it’s not a bad plan B anyway. I guess when we started this journey, we set up a map on how to become on what we would like to be. But when we started to drive, a few bumps and life decisions has to be made – ultimately a choice between what is bad and not so bad. We arrive on each station a little different until we throw out the map and just glide through life.

#sentimental #life101 #lifejourney #birthdayboy #lifeasiknowit #livelovelaugh #inspire #inspirationalquotes #lifeasitis #inspiration

the art of letting go (instagram quotes)

The advent of instagram is truly remarkable.  Its one of the most active app i have and one of the most endearing social networks that i joined in.  The rest of the world can follow you and show your affection through a 4×4 post.  I followed endearing accounts such as Lessons Learned in Life, I Like To Quote, Pin Quotes, Positive Outlooks and much more to give that extra push on my daily grind.  Here are some quotes that i had posted which reminded my self-worth and dont forget to follow me as well: http://instagram.com/the_world_of_aj

the ART of LETTING GO (picture series 1)


“The Art of Letting Go” series is one successful blog entry that i decided to create a whole new series from images found in the ever popular  site TUMBLR, LOVEQUOTESPLUS and SEARCHQUOTES.  So i decided to bring it back and compile ten beautiful quotes that will surely inspire you, (my dear readers) to finally ‘let go’.



When FEAR knocks …

Wikepedia defines FEAR as a distressing negative emotion induced by a perceived threat. It is a basic survival mechanism occurring in response to a specific stimulus, such as pain or the threat of danger. In short, fear is the ability to recognize danger and flee from it or confront it, also known as the Fight or Flight response.

A negative feeling that succumbs any individual if we are faced by a scary situation.  Fear is applied on everyday situations but often associated with paranormal images.  I have read it somewhere ‘Fear is a vital response to physical and emotional danger—if we couldn’t feel it, we couldn’t protect ourselves from legitimate threats”.  … TRUE!

One great example:


YUP!  I am.  I fear that i dont know how to fall in love and be loved.  Its tragic!!!!  I’m too comfortable playing single and feared the company of others.  Will i suck on having a relationship?  I dont want to be hurt again!  I’d rather go to my corner and play with my shadow.  Will he ever see me?  Will he even try to look for me? Is he still looking for me?  Fear of the things that i dont know and if ill ever fall in love again.

We are constantly living in fear.  Fear of the things that we don’t know and the things that is yet to come.  But i guess somehow fear is not that bad after all.  It gives you the ability to believe on something higher than anyone else. HE can iron out things we may not know.. things that is yet to come but too scared to face – instead we hide behind our shadows of doubt.  Why are we we so pessimistic?  Is it because that we don’t want to be hurt?  Are we afraid of our own shadows that we fail to look on the other side of the coin?

Fear gives you the ability to feel alive.  Without it, then we maybe living in an ‘eye for eye’ society.  Fear gives you the comfort that something needs to be done.  It gives you the extra push to kick off a habit because your afraid what it may do to you in the long run.  Fear gives you the ability to fly.  It serves as the guiding force between you wings and reality.  Fear gives you the ability conquer fear itself.  It serves as a bulletproof when doubt sets in.  We wont know what life may bring us not unless we let go.


the most HEARTBREAKING text messages i have read … (series 4)


Too many lies can weaken one’s trust…

Too much betrayal can cause a person to be afraid

And the sad truth is …

Too much pain felt by a loving heart can cause it to freeze

Till it goes numb by the never ending pain…

Until it doesn’t feel any love… anymore. (Sad but true)


To love someone doesn’t mean to commit with that person.

Sometimes you just have to be satisfied with whatever connection you have with that special one.


Isn’t it sad when you are so much in love right now,

but you cant freely let it out?

And your so DAMN scared to show it to all cause of one reason?


(gawd, this hits me right on my noggin – AJ)


Are we really hurt because

we can’t tell the person we love what we really feel?

Or are we hurt because at the back of our minds

we know that telling the object of our affection what we really feel won’t make any difference

(now, I’m starting to cry…- AJ)


People must try to be sensitive…cause not everyone is strong enough to endure pain.

After all there’s no anesthesia for a broken heart


What makes us a fool???

When it hurt us to the core seeing the one you love with somebody else,

but still, you keep on staring.


UNCERTAINTY is the biggest torture in love.

You feel jealous yet you can’t complain.

You can get hurt yet you can’t show it.

You can love with your all yet you cant say it.

All you can do is watch,

keep the pain, enjoy, the smiles, hugs and kisses then show much that person means to you


The love you cant have….

Last as the longest

Feels the strongest

And hurts the MOST.


They asked ‘how does it feel to love someone who love someone else?’

After a deep breath, he answered; ‘its like hugging a cactus, the tighter you embrace, the more it hurts’


We keep on sticking to who we like, that’s why we never notice those who like us.

Sometimes were dying for someone who doesn’t care, while somebody’s already dead trying to please us…

guidelines in finding TRUE LOVE (part 2)


since its the LOVE month, let me share the 2nd series of ‘guidelines in finding TRUE LOVE’.  i hope that you would also enjoy this post as much as you enjoyed the first one.

enjoy and let’s fall in LOVE….

GUIDE 11: 

If we fall in love because someone makes us laugh, what happens when we no longer find them funny? 

If we fall in love because someone beautiful, what happens when that beauty fades? 

If we fall in love because someone can provide for us, what happens when they lose their wealth? 

Because LOVE defies all known reasons. 

When you truly love someone, you can’t just find a reason.

You just do.


GUIDE 12: 

If you love someone, never hesitate to show what you feel, just follow your heart.

Never waste your time, never fear, nor doubt, never quit…nor stop.  But never expect in return. 


Don’t be afraid to become stupid.  Just love, be real.  You might get hurt, but you must not give up. 


Just live your life, love the way you want.  Never get tired.  Stay alive to love. And stay in love to live.  Till you learn to let go, till you learn to set free. And to always stay happy.


GUIDE 13:  They say that those relationships which were formed just right after a very short time of courting are untrue and not just.  I say…you don’t have to eat an entire cake just to know if it tastes good


GUIDE 14:  We don’t look for love because it’s lonely to be watching movies alone… because its sad to eat meals on your own…because its nice to cuddle up with someone on rainy days.


We look for love because we want to be accepted.  For the sloppy way we dress…for the clumsy way we eat our meals, for bad hair days and for simplicity in us. 


Love is an act of acceptance, that with all our imperfections, we are accepted and loved


GUIDE 15: Always remember that you can never find a perfect partner to love you the way you wanted.  Only a person who’se willing to love you more than what you are.  Someone who’ll accept you for what you can and can’t be and that’s even better than perfect.



GUIDE 16: The one person who deserves you is the one who will stick by your side no matter how much you mess up and the one who will forgive you…mistake after mistake



Love is not everyday ‘cause it will be boring. 

Its not all the candy treats, might give you a sore throat. 

Its not laughter all the time or you’ll get hiccups. 

Mostly love is not all the time, sometimes it’s a diamond. 

Love with everything you will be, with all that you are not.


GUIDE 18: You can tell if that person is someone special,

Because no matter what kind of mood you are in

He can always manage to make you smile


GUIDE 19: You will NEVER be good enough for everybody…

But this is for sure, you are THE BEST for someone who really appreciate you.