#thirtynine


39. My new favorite number.

I never had an issue about my age. In fact I embrace it and never hide the fact that I’m getting a year older. Its like your favorite excuse for everything like asking for a seat from another senior in MRT. If I was given a chance to exchange every year with youth and beauty… I would gladly say “pass” for the opportunity. #wisdom over #vanity.

I seldom visit the church. But everyday, I say a little prayer. Being grateful that I had another day, another chance to mend my ways. Looking back on those years, I like what I become. It may not be what I dream of becoming but it’s not a bad plan B anyway. I guess when we started this journey, we set up a map on how to become on what we would like to be. But when we started to drive, a few bumps and life decisions has to be made – ultimately a choice between what is bad and not so bad. We arrive on each station a little different until we throw out the map and just glide through life.

#sentimental #life101 #lifejourney #birthdayboy #lifeasiknowit #livelovelaugh #inspire #inspirationalquotes #lifeasitis #inspiration

a jar of #GoodVibes for #2014


Its that time of year again that you sit down and write a list of  your New Years Resolution.

I bet every year that list is getting shorter and shorter.  Why?  You simply cant follow the damn list anyway until your all too tired of writing the freakin’ do’s and dont’s and you find yourself snuggling that bottle of beer – frustrated and feeling awful for yourself.  “why am i an awful person…. oh why” – i bet you were asking that after 6 bottles of beer.  Don’t worry, i can relate!

One of my FB friends posted in her newsfeed a bottle of  Good Vibes.  She may have created this last year but i guess its an awful good idea in replacement of “Schindlers list”.  All you got to do is get that empty bottle and fill it up with small notes that may have happened to you during the day and at the end of the year, you get to open it up and literally “count your blessing”.  Take note: you would only include surprised gifts, accomplished goals, the beauty of nature, you “LOL” moments, memories worth saving and your daily blessings.  None of those “cry out” moments that you love to post on you FB status.

I have my own version in FB.  ill create an album for Good Vibes since i’m always online and i’m one of those kids who loves to post pictures.  But either way, it will still be the same end result – “count your blessings instead of the jumping sheeps who went over the fence of your homophobic neighbor … and i bet your ass that you’ll feel a lil bit lighter!!!

Share this post to your blogs and your friends.  “Pay it forward” as they say and get this “good vibes idea” go viral… just don’t forget to leave your comments on the box below on how you felt when you started this project!  Thanks and Happy New Year!

how much are you in #naughty currency?


while scrolling through my FB news feed, i found this post on one of my friends and i love to share it with you…

You simply have to choose the things that you have done so far amongst its 22 choices and each act has an equivalent in dollar currency.  i bet you’ll have a great time calculating how naughty you get through the years…  i got $47.50 so far and i guess based on this test – so far so goood…  i guess i’m still mommy’s little angel after all (winks)

You can repost and share this to your friends and have fun with it.  Just don’t forget to write down on my comments box how naughty you are before sharing it in your blog

thank you Steve Sumbodee for the post.  follow him in Facebook by simply writing his name on the search engine…

#1 rule in a #gay chat room – WAG #MASUNGIT!


i may have not be thinking straight (gay…helllloooooo) but whenever your chatting with someone else – please avoid being “masungit” (and in english “rugged”)

The point of having a conversation is to know the other person – right?  just to give you a brief background of what this person maybe.  Asking basic stuff like age, location, height, weight, bi, straight, gay or work background are some general overview of profiling the guy.  Come on, how many things would I even pick up from a guy whose name is “2big4U” or “right2l4U”.  Would I be able to dissect your personality just by reading your pseudonym or staring on your abs.  Give me some credit.  At least I’m using my face pix to let you know how honest and confident I am in terms with my aesthetics.  I am not good looking and I may not have the “6pack abs” but I does not give you the license to annihilate me with pistols and missiles.

You may have the body of a Greek god or the looks that everyone drools at, but your attitude stinks!  And may I tell you this, I’m not really good with geographical measurements since I got the 75 in my geography class that’s why I ask how near are you from me.  Goodness gracious … your attitude is a spoiler!

 

NEWS FLASH: #GayAway pills now sold in Canada


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As they say :  A pack of “Gay Away” pills, will “cure gayness” away.

A store in Gimli, Manitoba believes that this may cure the homosexual tendencies of lads and lasses by simply chewing his/her way to the straight and narrow and will eventually “stop the craving for misbehaving.”   And by the way, did I say it’s “penis-flovored”?!!

Now i know what Santa may stuff on my Christmas stockings and the rest of the gay community on Christmas eve.

But before you set your foot and scowl your way to a “family friendly” store in Gimli, the said products were already removed from the shelves when a 12-year-old girl bought a pack and questioned her parents about the product’s authenticity (you go girl – A.J.).  The owner of the store – Rachelle Mistelbacher apologized and removed the product from shelves following backlash from the community. She maintains it was an “honest mistake” and insists her business does not condone the product’s message.

Gay Away is made by Toronto-area novelty company “Laughrat”, which also makes “pills” called Farters Choice (“end of the BIG stink”) and Small Cox.  In an email sent to CBC News on Friday, Laughrat said Gay Away’s creator believes it’s a “pro gay product that pokes fun at not gays but rather those people opposed to gay lifestyles.

“The inspiration for this product was born out of the ignorance of amongst others religious organizations and others in society who suggested that homosexuality was a ‘curable disease or condition’ and a lifestyle choice,” the company’s email states in part.

The company added that Gay Away has been sold in hundreds of North American retailers since 2008.
Full story here: http://www.queerty.com/local-canadian-retailer-stocks-gay-away-pills-mortifies-residents-20131213/#ixzz2oFWCrMsl

young gay guys: shame on you!


Sometimes… it’s just funny na tayu tayu na lang mga bading eh nagkakahiyaan pa or worst kung anu anu pa ang iniisip natin sa kapwa bading.

I don’t know why pero siguro its our upbringing right from the start.  We are a bit hesitant with our feelings since being gay in a masochist society is taboo.  We are often kicked on the sidelines and thought to suppress our feelings kaya the moment na makawala tayu from the wooden closets, we have a different idea sa mundong ginagalawan natin.

Like this guy from work.  We both have an account sa planetromeo.com.  I won’t be a hypocrite but I do have an account on this gay social site.  Anong masama dun?  I think it’s feasible and practical in meeting gay guys around metropolis minus the drama of a broken heart if the guy does not actually like you at all on the first place.  Just imagine the agony of being rejected right on your first date.  I should know since wala naming mga ganitong sites nang dalaginding pa ako.  Kaya nga ng nauso ang guys4men.com ay sobrang nag-fiesta ang mga kabadingan dito sa Pinas dahil sa wakas nadinig rin ang mga pag-nonovena naming sa simbahan ng Quiapo.  Faster and easier way to connect ika nga.  I’m not ashamed that I had an account on the site since I met a lot of fabulous guys and garnered generous friends as well.  Until they close and gave their contents to planetromeo.com

It’s not the same as compared to guys4men.  They don’t have any chatroom with common interest and the guys seemed so cold at times.  They brush you off the moment that they saw your picture.  I can’t blame them since there is no way for them to know me since there is no venue to write your thoughts that a regular chat room can do.

Going back to this guy sa work… so the moment I saw his picture, I instantly send him a message.  I told him that I knew him and asked where he lives since he is about 2.5KM from me lang naman.  Plus his profile said that he lives in Valenzuela.  I swear I just wanted to make friends but instead, what he did is he instantly logged out without responding.  WTF?!!!?

On the next day, I saw him at work and I’ll bet my pouty ass – he saw me.  I was smiling at him but what he did is he totally dismisses my cordial smile and biglang bawi ng tingin.  I mean… why?!!!?

I’m not even totally interested.  I just want to make friends but he inadvertently, took it a different way.  Come on… why do we do these things to ourselves.  Are you ashamed since I saw you red handed carrying an account on a gay social network?  Or you may have this notion na I have a crush on you?  Give me a break.  The world does not revolve on you.  If I do have a ‘thing’ for you, I would have asked your cell number right from the start!

Young gay guys live in a bubble na kesyo nag message or ngumiti sa kanila eh may crush kaagad sa kanila or ‘he-wants-me-in-bed-kinda-tingin’.  Don’t over assume na ito kaagad ang hangad nang mga medyo mas may edad na bading.  Madalas inuunawa ka na lang namin dahil hindi nabibili ang maturity sa BENCH.  You just got to get yourself and tap your feet on the ground dahil baka nahihibang ka na!  SHAME ON YOU!

mean gays


yes… i am signed in with http://www.planetromeo.com.  Im not even ashamed of it since there are no other venues i can find gay guys all in one place.  It may have been somewhere in cyberspace but at least i don,t need to play “IS-HE-IS-HE -NOT” which is somehow so dead tiring at times.  I guess i’m on that stage that asking your sexuality is just like asking what is your favorite color.  there is no need to pretend and hide who am i.  I wont pretend that i hold the TOP position if i’m really comfortable at the BOTTOM.  i’m not pretentious and i wont budge in to any stereotypical notion that normally straight guys think about me.

Yes, i scream sometime like any straight girls when they feel excited.  i don’t wear make-up but i have my own powder foundation and keeps a concealer on my pocket.  i love men perfumes and i don’t wear girls dress for work. but needless to say, with the agony of everyday life on how straight guys think about us, its so disappointing that even gays alike are so mean to each other.

take for example their profiles at planetromeo which is found below:

** looking for someone who i can hang out with. message me with your number, ill contact you if im interested 

AJsays: wow… “will contact if interested” kawawa naman yung nagmessage.  baka abutin ng isang taon bago ka magka-interes.  why don’t you just respond to that guy na ‘pwede friends na lang tayo’.  i mean, why keep someone hanging in mid air and letting that person drift with its fantasies while you on the other hand has no plans on even responding.  we need to move on somehow and responding to a simple message is the key.  huwag kang magpa-asa sa wala at baka bumalik sayu

 

** ANTIPOLO TONYT .. bosay ( 07 -27 – 2013) ang gwapo mo nman ang macho pa .. ee may utak kaba??!un lang! nako bawal patanga tanga! hehe .. Penge jowa . maginoo pero meju Bastos .. LOLJK just bbm me .. pin:2**@%$65 or send an sms .. 09********16 .. 

AJsays:  goodness gracious!! ikaw na ang matalino iho.  maybe you should go ask your mother to teach you some manners!

 

** Bawal effeminate kung relationship ang habol mo sa akin. Kung tropa lang, dapat discreet pa rin at astigin. Kung WALA kang picture, please back off!! Mag mayabang ka kung gwapo ka. Salamat. 

AJsays: with this type of attitude… sino ang mas mayabang sa inyong dalawa.  the gay international flag represents the color of the rainbow.  it means that though we are different from one another – trans, butch, silahista, bi etc – we are united!  so who the hell are you discriminating effeminate guys.  baka mas lalaki pa sayu yung mga dinidiscriminate mo.  or better yet, mas may itsura at mas may pinagaralan pa sayu.  Youll never know baka may sarili na rin siyang bahay and he doesnt have to rely on his parents for money.  Baka nga mas malakas ka pang tumili pag nakakita ka ng ipis na lumilipad.

 

**lives in sampaloc,studying within U-belt area 🙂 MASSEURS/ESCORTS… PLEASE STOP MESSAGING ME, IM NOT INTERESTED 

AJsays:  then why the hell are you keeping an account for planetromeo if you dont want to entertain messages.  feeling celebrity lang ang peg???

 

**im here just to gather a friend or found a partner who knows the meaning of BUDDY/PARTNER. SEX is not my hobbies so don’t ever ask me, what is my trip and never invite me for that particular things, mssyng lng tym nyo s akin s gnyang bagay 

AJsays: well if that is the case change your profile picture instead.  show some pictures that your all dressed up and not something that you are half naked.  You better brush up your grammar as well so you’ll know when and when not to use “S”

Its funny how we interact to each other.  how we post such things against another gay guy.  I know FB and google is littered with hunk-a-licious guys whom you fantasize at times.  we are literally bombarded of ‘almost perfect’ men that we use this as a gauge in finding our ‘happy ever after’.  but life is filled with choices and we are not perfect with shiny set of teeth.  we vary on sizes … and height but it does not mean if your a five incher, your no longer good in bed.  it does not follow how you perform though your an inch smaller than him.  he may have a 6 pack abs but does he have a personality like yours – as vibrant and colorful than a rainbow sky.

this blogger is guilty in posting gorgeous men.  posting demi-god hunks which is almost perfect.  celebrities with their half-naked photos.  but that’s my aesthetic nature talking.  I know how to appreciate beauty and recognize with their hard work.  but relationship are different.  this is your actual interaction with another human being – on how we respond on certain things and acknowledge the fact that someone from somewhere read your profile or gazed at your photos who manages to pull an ounce of courage from their pocket sending you a simple message … ” HI! “.  You don’t dismiss the fact that he did sent you a message. acknowledge it by responding.  it does not matter if he is effeminate than you or he is wearing pink trousers with skimpy top.  what is important is his honesty to himself and to you.  he never uses someone else’s picture and pretend that he is a TOP.  what matters most is he approach you as another human being.  i just hope that someday, we will find our difference and accept it as it is.

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are you Mrs. INSENSITIVE ?


bakit nga kaya may mga taong ubod ng INSENSITIVE?  I bet you may have encountered at least one or two for a lifetime that really annoys you somehow and strum your stings to the hilt.

I’ve been working with the same company for more than 5 years and there is ‘this girl’ who annoys me a lot.   I wont drop a name but her name rhymes with a popular song by Rihanna.  Anyway, she never fails to annoy me.  Just imagine the agony of working with her.  It seems she knew everything in the whole world.  Daig nya pa si Einstein sa katalinuhan at mas higit pa siya kay KC Montero sa pag-iingles.  Ikaw na girl… sayo na ang korona!  She has this loud, annoying cackle whenever she laughs – she laughs on trivial things that i don’t even find it funny.  Just to add injury to the pain, magkasama pa kami sa team.  There are days na i just wanted to stand up and smash the avaya on her face and ipakain sa kanya yung headset.   The job is stressful enough as it is and here she is – cackling her way to insanity.

Sino on her right mind ang pagtawanan ang pagdurusa ng kapwa?  The guy is experiencing an escalated call obviously and here she is – mocking every single word that you say.  Her pronunciation is not that all great anyway.  Eh kung paglalabanin ko sila ni Sushmita Sen sa isang english proficiency contest, i would rather vote for Sushmita right at the start. Ms. Insensitive has a monotone voice, almost robotic at times.

There are times na talagang malapit ko na siyang mapatulan.  Before i can do something horrifying,  i would rather keep my mouth shout.  Hindi ko na lang papatulan at hindi ko na lang muna kikibuin bago kami mag-away.  There are several times na hindi ko na rin kinibo si Ms. Insensitive.  Why?  Because i knew for a fact na kung papatulan ko, walang magandang ibubuga ang mga bibig na ito.  Baka magkaroon lang World War 3 sa floor and ako pa ang talo dahil pinatulan ko ang isang negritang tulad nya.

Ang nakakatawa rin minsan sa babaeng ito eh wala namang siyang ibubuga pagdating sa personalidad at pansariling relasyon.  She does not like her husband at all and they never had sex for a long time.  Her health is failing and she is not that beautiful.  She may have big boobs but you cant use that as a collateral when your asking a loan in any financial institution.

But sometimes, i do pity her.  At times i can see her looking at my own set of friends.  Her eyes looks so sad at times.  I do’nt know… i don’t want to say anything conclusive pero parang may kaunting ingit.  My friends and i kasi kahit paano we share some stuff such like food, tsismis, boys stories, sad moments and anything under the sun.  I choose them because they are the most sensible people i can find.  I do’nt dwell on people like her and i wont welcome her on my personal life either. She will be just another dark skinned girl outside looking in my fabulous glass house.