the art of letting go (part 1)

one of the painful tragedies in life is the so called

‘break up’, matched by the most awful medicine prescribed by heart doctors – ‘letting go’.

I should know since I’ve seen both sides of the coin and without the help of friends and comrades, I may have been writing this blog in a loony bin.  As time passes, i have collected some quotable quotes or text messages which I would like to share.  Believe me, it might sound corny but these messages may be able to brighten up your cloudy sky.  Read along….

MANTRA 1:

If love becomes painful…

Its time to let that love go and save yourself

You got to keep this in mind ‘you’ll be able to find another love but not another self’

MANTRA 2:

In life you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose.

Some were put there to test you…

some would use you (and I learned this the hard way…jeeezzz)

some would teach you

some would bring out the better if not the best in you.

Some may even cause you pain and heartache

BUT one must learn to move on…

so let go of the people who can’t treat you right and hold on to those who love your back and see your worth.

MANTRA 3:

You can never find rest until you finally let go of the hatred that fits your heart

MANTRA 4:

‘I’m starting to learn.

You can’t make someone love you.

You can’t make someone be faithful to you.

You can’t control your own faith sometimes.

Things happen: good, bad, indifferent.

You just have to let some things go and hope for the best

MANTRA 5:

Love… is neither about judging nor being a perfectionist.

Love… is about accepting, understanding and self sacrificing and most of all,

Love… is supposed to make you happy, dear….

not stupid!

MANTRA 6:

The best part of being in love is when you just love a person and be happy about it.

Even if that person can never be yours, even if you know that it can lasts forever!

That’s the true essence of love.

It’s not about winning someone.

It’s not about owning a relationship.

It’s just about being happy because you know you’ve loved someone.

It’s about being guiltless because you know you didn’t take away someone from anybody.

You just love and love unselfishly.

MANTRA 7:

If an angel and devil were to fall in love with each other…

Can there be love with each other?

Can their love transcend the law of heaven and hell?

Can the angel set her wings on fire?

Can the devil soar at the day light?

This is faith’s decree

MANTRA 8:

Love can’t change what aren’t meant to be

MANTRA 9:

Kapag niloloko ka na at madalas pinagmumukha kang tanga at bukod sayo ay meron pang iba?

Kahit mahal mo siya dapat ng iwan.

Stop torturing yourself dahil wala pang medalya para sa TANGA!

MANTRA 10:

It doesn’t make you less of  a person if you don’t belong to somebody, but don’t get so caught up and stick with someone and fail to get to know  and meet others.

You don’t need to have them to feel good about yourself.